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Regulation During Relationship Conflict: It’s Not Just About Calming Down
Regulation during conflict isn't just about calming down. It's about how we navigate difficult emotions, respond to one another, and find more room to choose what happens next.
Nichole Hart
Oct 2711 min read


Why “Taking a Break” During Conflict Is So Damn Hard
Why can taking a break during conflict feel nearly impossible—even when we know it’s exactly what we need?
Nichole Hart
Sep 2314 min read


Remembering Us: A Practice that Grounds Us When We Forget What We Teach
Insight can tell you why a fight happened, but it won't protect your relationship. Why we become what we repeatedly practice.
Nichole Hart
Jul 96 min read


Why You Keep Having the Same Fight (And What Actually Ends Recurring Arguments)
Why do the same fights keep happening—and what actually changes them? The answer might not be what you think.
Nichole Hart
May 610 min read


Why One Day of Romance a Year Is a Terrible Plan
Romance works better when it isn’t saved for one day.
Nichole Hart
Feb 35 min read
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